Behaviors
to Avoid:
1.
Smelling/sniffing
food: Smelling your food indicates that the food is bad and reflects badly on
the cook and their cooking methods. You
should therefore avoid sniffing your food so as to not imply that it is rotten
or smells bad.
2.
Use of the index finger: In Rwanda, the index
finger is used to call dogs. Dogs are
not valued here and Rwandans do not like to be associated with them because
they are considered to be dirty. Calling
someone over by use of the index finger is like calling them a dog.
Also,
using the index finger to call someone over communicates an arrogant or
superior attitude as the colonialists used to call the natives by using the
index finger. To call someone over, wave
the palm of the hand in a downward motion.
3. Public
displays of affection: Love is highly valued here, however it is related to sex
and is considered to be very private and should not be displayed in
public. Kissing and hugging in public is
not common. Even holding hands between
two people of the opposite sex in public is considered improper. (Holding hands
between two people of the same sex is okay as it is signifies close friendship).
4. Hanging
underwear outside (to dry): Underpants are private clothing and to hang them
where people can see them is to expose yourself as naked. When drying underpants outside, they should
be covered with a cloth. Ideally, they
should be dried in your room and then ironed to kill any microbes that would
have otherwise been killed by the sun.
5. Handing
things to others with your left hand: You are not to hand anyone anything with
the left hand. Always use the right or
both (the left hand on the right one) as a sign of respect.
6. Dogs: you
are not to let a dog lick you as it is considered unclean. Rwandans are not fond of dogs at all. After the genocide, starving dogs would walk
around and eat the dead bodies of their owners, hence the reason they are not
valued here as they are in America.
7. Wearing
torn/dirty clothes or immodest dress: Clothes and shoes must always be clean
and mended. Women should avoid clothing
that is tight, transparent, low-cut, or too short. Bleached or ripped jeans are not appropriate.
1.
Greeting people: Politeness
in America is pegged by saying please and thank you. However, politeness in Rwanda is communicated
through the use of greetings. Greeting
is one of the most important cultural practices and foreigners should be aware
of this as it can either enhance or distort good relationships. If someone greets you, it means he/she
respects you and is ready to begin a conversation at any time. If you need any help from someone, it is very
important to greet them first or else they may not want to help you. If you don't greet your neighbors every time
you see them, it means you are not on good terms with them. Not greeting someone is to deny them their existence.
2.
Respecting
elders: Rwandans are very age conscious and offer the upmost respect to their
elders. They are respected for the
wisdom they have and for the fact that in traditional Rwandan society, it was
believed that elders had the power to curse any person who is disrespectful. For this reason, Rwandans try hard not to annoy
their elders and tend to give them priority in daily situations (ie. giving
them their seats in public transportation, greeting them, removing hats when
talking to them, seeing that they are served food first, etc.).
Fast
Facts
·
Africans
typically eat with their hands, to be more precise, their right hand.
·
In some families,
males eat separate from females, or children separate from adults
·
Rwandans have a
very strong extended family system. If
one has a good job, there will be a big flow of relatives coming to seek help;
and the relative must help because oftentimes, they were helped by their family
to get where they are today.
·
Rwandans like to
help one another--one's problem is another's.
It is culturally expected that those who are working and have stable
families take in needy relatives and friends.
·
The more
prosperous someone is, the more relatives they are expected to take in or
assist financially
·
Almost every
Rwandan family houses at least one orphan
·
Division of labor
is organized by gender. Female work
roles consist of housework (fetching water, gathering fuel, meal preparation,
child rearing, washing clothes, washing dishes, cleaning the house, and
gardening activities). Male work roles
consist of maintaining the house and taking care of livestock. Men often have more leisure time than women.
·
When waving hello
to someone, you must use the queen-style wave.
Waving with the fingers moving up and down beckons someone to 'come
here'
*Taken from the Peace Corps Rwanda Homestay Manual*
Love and Peace Corps,
Dametreea
(Written 6/9/12, 1:15p)
(Written 6/9/12, 1:15p)
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