The day after I returned from training, I went to work and not even one hour went by before I was slapped in my face...TWICE! After the initial shock and getting over my bruised ego and hurt feelings, I thought to myself, man, you guys really must have missed me. I absolutely positively love the affection and the fact that my coworkers like me so much, but isn't there a less aggressive, less painful way for them to show their feelings?? A slap in the face doesn't exactly make me feel warm and fuzzy inside. And it's not just a tap to the cheek either...it's more like a...here, see for yourself. Hold your hand up next to your face and then make contact with your cheek with the same force that you would if you were clapping your hands...and then push your head to the side. If you did it how it's done to me here, you probably bruised your own ego a bit and here is where I welcome you to my world :-P
I've said on several occasions that I don't like that
"kind" gesture, but I guess it's just something that I'm going to
have to get used to. When someone gets
really excited telling a story, they slap you; if you do something or have
something really cool, they slap you; if you've been gone for a while and come
back, they slap you...I guess if I were to compare the gesture to something in
America, it would be the little shoulder shove that ladies give each other when
they are telling a story or someone cracks a small joke...kind of like the
"girl-shut-up" shove. It's a
playful shove, and I guess the slap is supposed to be the same thing...except
in my eyes, it's not all that "playful."
I didn't mention this in the last post, but when I first arrived
back to my house after training, I noticed a bunch of HUGE