I went to visit my neighbor (who is the sweetest woman ever) on Wednesday and she asked me to come to church with her on Friday. I told her, "I'm Christian." Then she said, "That's okay, it's just to visit." I asked her when and where the church was and she told me that she goes on Fridays. "I work on Fridays," I told her and then she said, "We can go during your lunch." Great, I'm cornered. I have the hardest time telling people no, so I obliged and told her that I would come to her house as soon as I got off of work for lunch. I'm strong in my faith as a Christian so I figured it wouldn't be too big of a problem; also, I'm not perfectly fluent in Kinyarwanda just yet so I probably wouldn't have been able to understand what was being said anyway. I agreed to go more for integration purposes than to be converted to Muslim and I assumed this wouldn't be a problem...that is...until I asked two of my coworkers for their advice.
After the staff
meeting on Thursday morning, I walked into the office that I share with two of
my coworkers and popped my big question.
"My neighbor asked me to go to church with her on Friday, but she's
Muslim. I'm not sure if it's appropriate
for me to go or not. What do you
think?" Little did I know, I opened
up a huge can of worms with this question and should have stuck with just
asking my mom and sister in America for their opinions. One of my (very outspoken) coworkers, who
happens to speak English rather well, lit into me immediately. Here is a blurb of what he said: "Why
would you want to go to church with them?
Muslims are dirty! Do not be their friends! Do not go to their mosque! Do not eat the food they give you! They are different. They do not have hygiene. When they use the bathroom, they wipe with
their right hand and will make you sick."
As he said all of this, I couldn't help but to notice