I'm just getting home from a wedding that I was invited to a few days ago. I think I've finally gotten the three ceremonies down. One is a ceremony in which the bride and groom's fathers give one another gifts, the second is of the signing of the marriage documents, and the 3rd is a reception-type ceremony with food, drinks, dancing, music...you know...regular reception-type activities. I'm assuming the ceremony I went to today was the one where the two father's exchange gifts, but I'm not too sure since I was two hours late. The wedding began at 10, however the student I went with came to get me at 12. The bride is her friend and since she was going, I figured I would wait until she was ready so I wouldn't have to go alone.
When we arrived,
we were ushered to two seats in the back
of the church and asked what kind of Fanta we wanted to drink. I asked for my usual Orange flavor (which
never came, by the way) and then focused my attention on the happenings at the
front of the room. For the short time
that I was there (about 1 hour), here is what happened:
One of the
father's stood and gave a short speech and then presented the other father with
a gift; the gift being a jumbo-sized bottle of Coca-Cola Zero. After speaking for about 5 minutes, he opened
the bottle, poured both himself and the other father a drink, made a toast and
they took a sip. Next, the bride entered
the church with her wedding party.
Instead of flower girls, about 6 children danced and sang to the beat of
a drum as we all stood and the bride marched in behind them. Once she was in, we all sat and enjoyed
another dance by these cute little girls.
Next, the bride and groom walked around the church to greet and hug
their parents and then returned back to the front of the church. Next, they were each given a glass of their
favorite Fanta (Orange), and took turns lifting a cup to the other's
mouth. After this, two songs were sang
by the church choir and to my surprise, once they were finished, the bride,
groom, and entire wedding party stood and began to march out of the
church. I wasn't expecting the wedding
to be over so soon, but I guess when you're TWO HOURS LATE, it tends to seem a
little shorter than usual. However, I am
glad I was late because it was hotter than Satan's toenails in that church! Once I finally made it back outside into the
still not-so-cool air, I greeted a few of the church members I recognized and
made sure to ask if the wedding was over (since I wasn't 100% sure). When I got the yes answer that I was looking for,
I started on my way home. No sooner than
I turned to walk away, an older woman walked up next to me and grabbed my
hand. I have no idea who she was, but
she walked with me and talked with me, hand in hand, until we arrived at my
house. (The old ladies here are the
cutest...I love them to death)! And
now...here I am writing to all of my amazing friends and family back in the
states (whom I miss so very much, might I add).
It's just 2:10pm and I have nothing else on my agenda for the day...So I'm
thinking the Lion King will do to pass some time (:
Love and Peace
Corps,
Dametreea
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