More precious moments...
You Are the Limousine of Cars
Four months after
all of the jokes from my sister about my "Africa wardrobe," I have
finally come to the conclusion that she was absolutely WRONG! My coworkers seem to love every outfit I put
on and they swear up and down I bought all of these clothes here in
Rwanda--there's just no way America has all of these wonderful prints and
styles. It's looking like mission Saver's was a success (shout out to my
mom)!! lol
One day, one of
my coworkers went so far as to say, "Keza, wambaye neza (dressed
nicely)...do you know limousine??"
After I confirmed that he was talking about the fancy, long, black car,
I responded, "Murakoze (thank you)...yes, I know limousine." Then he proceeded to ask, "In America,
limousines are very nice??" Again,
I said yes and he said, "Well then, you are the limousine of
cars." I responded with a bashful,
"Thank you" and proceeded to have a limousine day of days. (:
Welcome Back!
After being away
from my village for a very long and much needed weekend, I never would have
imagined I could be so missed. When you
leave the village, everyone and their mama seems to find out so when I came
back and walked into work on Monday morning, I felt like I was the favorite
little cousin who had left for weeks. I walked into the morning staff meeting to "Keza!!!!
Welcome back!!!" and a million hugs, high fives, and burning cheeks from
smiling so hard. It gets harder and
harder for me to ask myself, what am I
doing here? when I have all of this waiting for me at work every day. When I see all of their smiling faces, I know
exactly what I'm doing here. If in these two years all I did was make them
smile, my mission will still have been accomplished. All I want to do is make a difference, and
with them I think it's safe to say I already have.
Rwandan Mama's
Before I came
here, one of the main pieces of advice that I had gotten from many Returned
Peace Corps Volunteers was to make sure I get in good with the Mama's in the
village, since they are the people who will always have your back and serve as
your protection when and if you ever need it.
I definitely made sure to heed this advice and I'm glad I did. A few weeks ago, I was on my way back to my
village from Kigali and was sitting next to a mama on the bus. It had started getting dark and she was
asking me how I was going to find a moto to get home so late. There just happened to be a man on the bus
from my village who I knew and he told her that he would gladly take me
home. This man is good friends with one
of my coworkers and I have been around him several times before so I figured a
ride home with him would have been much safer than finding a moto taxi and having
a complete stranger drive me home. So I
agreed and then the mama on the bus and I exchanged numbers so that I could
text her when I made it home safely. No
sooner than I got off the bus, this woman text me in all caps:
"PLEASE BE
SERIOUS WITH THAT MAN. DO YOU KNOW HIM
WELL? I PREFER YOU TAKE A TAXI MOTO BECAUSE OF HE HAVE NOT PERMI."
I really, truly
appreciated her concern. This certainly
isn't something you would find in America...not from a complete stranger
anyway. I sent her a message back
assuring her that the man was okay and that I would text her when I got
home. As you can see since a few weeks
have passed, I made it home safely...and as soon as I got home, I sent the mama
a confirmation text saying thank you and that I made it home. Her response was, "Thank you too and
have a good dream mwana wanjye (my child)."
Keza...Good Child
I met the
sweetest lady a few weeks ago and she sat and talked with me for a while
helping me practice my Kinyarwanda. I
feel like the more Kinyarwanda I speak, the better I will know it and so
whenever I find someone who is exceptionally talkative, I take advantage of the
opportunity and begin to practice saying just about every Kinyarwanda word I
know. At the end of my conversation with
this lady, she said to me in Kinyarwanda, "You are a very good child. Very, very good child." And then she added on something else that I
couldn't quite understand. One of my
coworkers who was sitting nearby saw the question mark on my face and told me
(In English), "She said that if she has a daughter, she will call her
Keza. Because you are very
good." You can imagine the kind of
day I had after hearing that. This lady
wants to name her daughter after me! And
even if she doesn't actually do it, it still warmed my heart to hear it (:
Love and Peace
Corps,
Dametreea
It is so amazing how warm and caring they are over there. I can't even comprehend living in a place so full of love. The last place they need to come to is America. America will ruin them. To have genuine love for someone over here is very rare. Friends and friendships are hard to come by. God has so much more for you to learn and see. Just embrace it. Love and miss you much. Mom
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